How not to be bothered by males.
By Rara - Tuesday, September 24, 2013
If you genuinely dislikes these kind of action by males expecially in college, here's my advice :
1. Wear baju kurung.
It's not just about covering your aurat sometimes, because our understanding about what is aurat is too shallow unfortunately :( we think we have covered, but somehow our attire is attractive - what's the point?
2. Speak in Malay.
I still find it funny how most jerks are more attracted to girls who speak in English. What's more when you can speak fluently. Just hide it to be safe. Huh..
Maybe it's about the first impression. If the girls if wearing this kinda attire, doesn't matter if they're covering their aurat or not, and speaks English, they must be the kinda girl who entertain this kind of things.. I don't blame a stereotype thought. It's the fact that we have to accept and live with it.
Worked very well for me. Trust me, insya Allah you will only be surrounded by good people. You never get a long time to judge a book by it's content. Like buying a book, you can't read the whole book and only then you decide to buy right? The cover & few things about content plays a big role for people to choose.
It's not like you can't act pretty and all, I know it's easy for me because I'm an easy going girl, I can get ready to go out in 5 minutes. But it's no harm of trying, especially in a condition where you have to be independent on your own, without your father or brother to be by your side to protect you.
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