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When they were invited to a famous person's party, they tell the whole class.
When they eat rare foods, they tell the whole class.
When their mums bought a new toys, they tell the whole class.
When their trillionth cousin is J.Lo, they tell the whole class.
Get the idea of what kind of person I am talking about? Basically those strange, weirdo, nettlesome kids who likes to brag about how awesome his life is! As if he's the only one living.. Nobody's going to admit that they are bragging, maybe they will just say or really intended to share, but! Don't tell me there is no sense of bragging at all. You must be an angel to have such a perfect imaan. Uhh astaghfirullah, I'm being suuzzon!
I just wanna say that be empathy towards your surrounding when you want to share something in social networking, where people will see things unwillingly.
You share delicious foods everyday, how can you be sure you will not upset even one person who couldn't afford that kind of dish? Oh, you can buy branded items, your boyfriend gave you a flower, so?
Moreover, nobody shares bad things they have done in social networking right? Because you know people will see. You only share good things. Because you know people will see - and judge you in a good way ; compliment.
"The less compliment you get, the better for you to take care of your imaan, your heart.".
Excuses like "I wanna share with my friends," is really lame. I'm living & grew in the same centuries as you (yes you my friends), I know exactly what's happening. If you really want to share, there are so many private mediums out there to avoid you from becoming a bragger.
This might sounds frivolous (petty, negligible) but come on, we are a Muslim. In my opinion, if what meaningless thing I'm doing will hurt one person, I won't do. It's unnecessary. Meaningless things like share photos, post silly status, those things that won't really affect your life even if you don't do it. Let's be considerate, even for that one stranger we don't know. They are from Allah as well, they were born as a Muslim as well.
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Astagfirullah, sometimes our sharing could become a bragging to someone else, I did that quite a lot times without noticing it D:
ReplyDeleteNahhh, don't worry.. I think I exaggerated a little too much as well!! Hahahaha just so we'll be more careful.. :)
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