Someone's opinion

By Rara - Thursday, February 17, 2011

For those who speak Malay, you may notice I'm writing this kind of post for the second time in a month. ;) I've been thinking about it because actually the word "opinion" means a lot to me. That's okay, I don't really like to describe about myself.

During one of the lesson in school, (I can't possibly say which subject it is, right.) the teacher said something like this.


"You can't say like, "teacher,I'm unsatisfied with the way you teach today," because we're not being taugh to be rude,"

Hold on. Is that what we call being rude? I'm strongly disagree with that. It's being honest. You say what you feel about something. If we're not being told what is our weakness, it's difficult to be a better person. To improve in whatever we do. I'd prefer someone to say to me of my weakness & so do I like to tell someone what is lack from them. Maybe that's why I don't really have much friends because not everyone would accept the way I'm being honest. I say it just to help them improving. Besides it's easier to find others' mistake than our own. That's why I need someone to criticize me so I can be a better person.

Now, what is rude? Rude is to say something truly, sincerely, just to hurt someone. It's up to us anyway how to accept something like that because mostly being "honest" and "rude" are two similar things on the surface. If you get what I mean. For example, if I say,

"I don't like the way you talk. You're trying to attract boys, are you?,"

Either you accept it positively and say, "Ok, I'll try not to talk like that in public," or "What the hell!? You're just jealous of me!". It's up to us. :)

Haters, just remember that I will always love you. Because you're the best at making me a better person. <3

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  1. Teringat akan kata-kata nenek, apabila guru sedang mengajar di hadapan, dan terdapat kelemahan padanya, kesilapan dan sebagainya. Nenek berkata, jangan pula kita mengajarnya itu dan ini. Mereka ada perasaan. ADA cara untuk menegur kesilapannya, dan cara itu berbeda di antara guru-guru.

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